If people don’t like you, do you think that means you’re doing something right?
17 Replies to “I wonder…”
Sometimes.
I think you need to work out the reason why they don’t like you to decide that. (if there is a reason that is)
Yes, I think it also means you can truly appreciate people who do like you.
well since you are wondering Mark? Since you are a friend on my page? you can message anything you want? And since you are a songwriter? I`m one too? if you need some material (they don`t have words) just message me anytime and we can do something if you want..
I`m down for the business. that’s what i`m wondering.
Huh? If people don’t like you because you’re a bully or an ass, does that mean you’re doing something right?
The extent to which you adhere to the truth is the measure that you’re doing something right. Nothing else matters.
I wonder… Oh Well….
sorry I don`t mean to spam…What I`m wondering Mark Hildrth without any disrespect to you, there is an interesting organization called Nxvim.
I`m always researching new ways of thought. I was wondering if you could be so kind and you can message me over at myspace to share some of this thought with me. While I do adhere to my own faiths and reasoning’s, I`m always opt to sit down and listen to others without discrimination. If you could be so kind to share some information with me, I would appreciated..
Nothing to fear, yet fear itself.
this cult rubbish was mentioned last year.
can’t find the exact post yet but seriously?
rehashing old stuff for the sake of it? not cool.
Sorry Paula. Just was wondering. And I never said anything about a cult.
Your always going to have people who don’t like you. Think of it like a Magnet. It doesn’t matter how you try cutting that magnet and presenting it to people. It will always have a negative and a positive to it. But the upside is… it’s always a complete balance of both
In essence both are required for growth.
To leave people not indifferent wheither liking or unliking you is already a victory and a proof of existence 🙂
I’m a little late on this one, but I think that perhaps people not “liking” you may mean that you’re on to something. Maybe you don’t follow the crowd and have strong opinions that are contradictory to what most believe or you just tell it like it is and don’t sugar coat things.
Then again, maybe you’re too aloof and come across as having no passion. Or you may just be a real jerk and that’s why people don’t like you. I think the best indicator of finding out why someone doesn’t like you is taking a close look at how the other person is living. You may not want to emulate them or their opinions are so warped that they can’t like you because you make too much sense. They may just simply dislike the light that you shine everywhere you go. Some people are negative. It’s important to just like yourself first and not in the self centered insecure way, but being truly comfortable in one’s self and then people not “liking” you won’t bother you that much.
Hi, everyone.. nice to be here with interesting conversations…
About mark’s question… well, since a while ago, I feel that if someone doesn’t like you it’s their problem, not yours… simple, you can’t do anything to change that, because it has its core on THEIR perception… and you can’t mess with that.
Maybe we could refrase the question… why I don’t like someone?
Usually, it’s because that person reflects something that lies within ourselves that we don’t like. (I’ve proben that…) and we “hate” them, because it’s showing it to us…
Ok, maybe that person is a jerk, but maybe, we differ in how we see the world… now, whay can’t we be tolerant with them?
wich reminds me… should we be tolerant with the intolerant?
Intereseting issue, but, as always, it starts making changes from within.
Greatings from Chile (going to the altiplano eh! eh! eh!)
Babs
oh… and.. what’s “right” after all?
you are just reflecting something they don’t like about themselves… is that yur problem?
if I feel awful, it’s my responsability, I can’t blame other… if I feel joyful, I’m responsale for it.. and the nice thing is I can share it… (better to share joy than sorrow…) and joy is contagious!!! XD
@paula i do agree with you. thank you for helping me with the smiley`s and yes we all need to get along with each other for the sake of human kindness. i was born with human kindness not hate, for the sake of trying to get along with others of my species… we are all one race meaning jew and gentile; let me add this, barrack obama and representative john boehner, i voted for barrack obama. and now that i look back on it i believe he won the election because the people learned to like him instead of disliking him… one is about to leave the white house either 2012 or later, and one works the government.
both share the idealistic views of the people…. however why at this time do they disagree on so much? i`m just wondering no harm done.
both of them at one point were children they couldn`t foresee anything meaning what they where destined to do. yet now one them is trying to say we should all get along the *right* way for the people by the people.
the people. i wonder as people can we really consider evolution. i wonder as a people will we be able to conquer space and the universe, do really have to get along to get along with other species concerning space?
concerning the question of “like”? i believe you either” like” or you don’t “like” course this can be questioned. even if your brain is “disliking” and “liking” at the same time? one is still “like” and “dislike” at the same time. however to be non-confusing, paula you are right.
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I precisely wanted to appreciate you all over again. I do not know the things I would’ve accomplished in the absence of the pointers provided by you relating to this concern. It absolutely was a real challenging concern in my view, nevertheless looking at a specialized strategy you resolved it made me to weep with contentment. I am happy for the advice and even trust you recognize what an amazing job you have been getting into instructing the mediocre ones with the aid of your website. Probably you haven’t encountered any of us.
Sometimes, yes. When are you truly yourself, it can happen that somebody doesn’t like it. When his opinions differ. But it could also help you. People are like mirrors, they reflect ourselves. It point us to attributes of ourselves, that need to be changed, or accepted and loved. 🙂 BTW I love your music, and you as a Joshua 🙂 fan from Czech republic
Sometimes.
I think you need to work out the reason why they don’t like you to decide that. (if there is a reason that is)
Yes, I think it also means you can truly appreciate people who do like you.
well since you are wondering Mark? Since you are a friend on my page? you can message anything you want? And since you are a songwriter? I`m one too? if you need some material (they don`t have words) just message me anytime and we can do something if you want..
I`m down for the business. that’s what i`m wondering.
Huh? If people don’t like you because you’re a bully or an ass, does that mean you’re doing something right?
The extent to which you adhere to the truth is the measure that you’re doing something right. Nothing else matters.
I wonder… Oh Well….
sorry I don`t mean to spam…What I`m wondering Mark Hildrth without any disrespect to you, there is an interesting organization called Nxvim.
I`m always researching new ways of thought. I was wondering if you could be so kind and you can message me over at myspace to share some of this thought with me. While I do adhere to my own faiths and reasoning’s, I`m always opt to sit down and listen to others without discrimination. If you could be so kind to share some information with me, I would appreciated..
Nothing to fear, yet fear itself.
this cult rubbish was mentioned last year.
can’t find the exact post yet but seriously?
rehashing old stuff for the sake of it? not cool.
Sorry Paula. Just was wondering. And I never said anything about a cult.
Your always going to have people who don’t like you. Think of it like a Magnet. It doesn’t matter how you try cutting that magnet and presenting it to people. It will always have a negative and a positive to it. But the upside is… it’s always a complete balance of both
In essence both are required for growth.
To leave people not indifferent wheither liking or unliking you is already a victory and a proof of existence 🙂
I’m a little late on this one, but I think that perhaps people not “liking” you may mean that you’re on to something. Maybe you don’t follow the crowd and have strong opinions that are contradictory to what most believe or you just tell it like it is and don’t sugar coat things.
Then again, maybe you’re too aloof and come across as having no passion. Or you may just be a real jerk and that’s why people don’t like you. I think the best indicator of finding out why someone doesn’t like you is taking a close look at how the other person is living. You may not want to emulate them or their opinions are so warped that they can’t like you because you make too much sense. They may just simply dislike the light that you shine everywhere you go. Some people are negative. It’s important to just like yourself first and not in the self centered insecure way, but being truly comfortable in one’s self and then people not “liking” you won’t bother you that much.
Hi, everyone.. nice to be here with interesting conversations…
About mark’s question… well, since a while ago, I feel that if someone doesn’t like you it’s their problem, not yours… simple, you can’t do anything to change that, because it has its core on THEIR perception… and you can’t mess with that.
Maybe we could refrase the question… why I don’t like someone?
Usually, it’s because that person reflects something that lies within ourselves that we don’t like. (I’ve proben that…) and we “hate” them, because it’s showing it to us…
Ok, maybe that person is a jerk, but maybe, we differ in how we see the world… now, whay can’t we be tolerant with them?
wich reminds me… should we be tolerant with the intolerant?
Intereseting issue, but, as always, it starts making changes from within.
Greatings from Chile (going to the altiplano eh! eh! eh!)
Babs
oh… and.. what’s “right” after all?
you are just reflecting something they don’t like about themselves… is that yur problem?
if I feel awful, it’s my responsability, I can’t blame other… if I feel joyful, I’m responsale for it.. and the nice thing is I can share it… (better to share joy than sorrow…) and joy is contagious!!! XD
@paula i do agree with you. thank you for helping me with the smiley`s and yes we all need to get along with each other for the sake of human kindness. i was born with human kindness not hate, for the sake of trying to get along with others of my species… we are all one race meaning jew and gentile; let me add this, barrack obama and representative john boehner, i voted for barrack obama. and now that i look back on it i believe he won the election because the people learned to like him instead of disliking him… one is about to leave the white house either 2012 or later, and one works the government.
both share the idealistic views of the people…. however why at this time do they disagree on so much? i`m just wondering no harm done.
both of them at one point were children they couldn`t foresee anything meaning what they where destined to do. yet now one them is trying to say we should all get along the *right* way for the people by the people.
the people. i wonder as people can we really consider evolution. i wonder as a people will we be able to conquer space and the universe, do really have to get along to get along with other species concerning space?
concerning the question of “like”? i believe you either” like” or you don’t “like” course this can be questioned. even if your brain is “disliking” and “liking” at the same time? one is still “like” and “dislike” at the same time. however to be non-confusing, paula you are right.
Hello There. I found your blog using msn. This is a really well written article. I will make sure to bookmark it and return to read more of your useful info. Thanks for the post. I’ll certainly comeback.
I precisely wanted to appreciate you all over again. I do not know the things I would’ve accomplished in the absence of the pointers provided by you relating to this concern. It absolutely was a real challenging concern in my view, nevertheless looking at a specialized strategy you resolved it made me to weep with contentment. I am happy for the advice and even trust you recognize what an amazing job you have been getting into instructing the mediocre ones with the aid of your website. Probably you haven’t encountered any of us.
Sometimes, yes. When are you truly yourself, it can happen that somebody doesn’t like it. When his opinions differ. But it could also help you. People are like mirrors, they reflect ourselves. It point us to attributes of ourselves, that need to be changed, or accepted and loved. 🙂 BTW I love your music, and you as a Joshua 🙂 fan from Czech republic